Hey You, behind the screen! Yes, YOU!

Come a little closer, I have something to tell you. Don’t be scared, but first, let me ask you something.

What do you want? What do you really want to do and achieve in life?

Now, if you’re like the majority of us, you’re probably also going though the reasons in you head as to why you can’t actually do this thing you really want. But why? What’s with all the doubts? All the negativity, the excuses, and endless fruitless wishing?

Really, I want you to say it out loud now. Give real voice to the reasons and excuses you have been telling yourself in your head. Don’t feel silly, it’s okay. I’ll wait right here while you do so. I’ll do it too! Ready, 1…2…3…

You did it? Okay, now say it a few more times. Sounds pretty silly right? Giving voice to that kind of negativity and excuses. It sounds foolish. Those excuses make us look so unconfident and well, rather dumb. Not to be harsh, but it’s the truth.

Sometimes we need that reminder, that reality check and kick-in-the-pants. Now just take a deep breath. I’m going to tell you why we all could use this reality check and why these excuses and self-doubt need to stop.

For some reason we find it so easy to doubt ourselves and give excuses as to why we can’t actually do something of achieve what we so dearly want. Negativity is so much easier to dish out than positivity, but it is so much “harder” on our minds and bodies over time. Once we start with the negativity, it just places us further and further out into a vast and endless ocean of doubt. We’ll keep trying to stay afloat, bu there’s nothing there to hold onto, to give ourselves some relief from the tempest we’ve created. Eventually we’ll become so weak and exhausted that we’ll end up drowning. The endless ocean of doubt we got ourselves so deep into will come out the victor and swallow you up along with those dreams you were making excuses about.Read More